SUCCESS - By The Letters

Although much has been written about success or what it means to be successful, the concept still remains nebulous to most, probably because it means so many different things to different people. The vast majority of people claim that they strive for success, but they remain uncertain what it means, and what they need to do if they really wish to be successful. Since I believe that mnemonics are often one of the best and most memorable ways of remembering nearly everything, SUCCESS should also be considered in this manner. S is for each of our need to search inwardly and outwardly; then we must understand both our personal needs as well as others (and how they best work synergistically); we must care deeply about whatever we feel more relevant and/ or important; we must pursue creating something both unusual and unique; consider being empathetic and not simply being sympathetic when others could use your concern; always remain solution - oriented; and consistently maintain your strength of character.

1. How can anyone be successful if he doesn't truly understand his needs, and can't objectively search inwardly, evaluating our strengths and weaknesses, effectively utilizing our strengths while addressing and working on improving upon any areas of weakness.

2. Success is not something we seek, but rather that comes about because of what we do, and not simply because we want to be successful. This requires both understanding as well as focusing on need.

3. How can anyone even think about potentially achieving success unless he cares deeply for others, always emphasizing value and quality? Unless an individual respects himself and the efforts he takes, he can never feel that he truly is a success!

4. Success only comes about when one decides to be himself, and doing something unique and unusual that positively impacts others. Invariably, each of us is able to proceed more effectively, positively, and in a better frame of mind, when we can feel proud that we do something that enhances those around us.

5. When we feel empathy for others, we place ourselves in their shoes, and attempt to view things through their eyes. This intensifies our ability to bond with others and relate better, because the more objective we can be, the better we can perform. Contrast this to mere sympathy, which is simply going through the motions and feeling sorry for others in a somewhat aloof perspective.

6. Do you focus on what you perceive of as the problems, challenges or obstacles, or do you look at how to transform these in a positive and productive manner, and act in a solution - oriented approach? Only when we seek ways to do things rather than reasons that we can't, do we optimize and potentiate out actions.

7. As in most things that are done, the most essential component is our own strength of character. Do we possess inner strength, persistence, persevere when others often give up, and maintain our positive mental attitude?

Success is never either automatic or guaranteed. However, if we proceed by the letters, our chances to succeed, and provide value to humanity and please ourselves, is truly enhanced.

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